For Such a Time as This

“And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?” – Esther 4:14

How do I know if I’m on the right path?

How do I know if I’m making the right decisions?

How do I know if this is the right relationship, opportunity, or next step?

The word “right” shows up a lot in my life. I think it’s a reflection of how I’ve learned to interact with the world—constantly seeking to get things right.

One of my favorite books in the Bible is Esther. I love the story of this young girl who becomes queen and courageously saves her people from destruction. I love that she was perfectly placed in a lineup of other young women to win the favor of a king who had no idea that God’s plan was unfolding through her.

I love that Esther listened and obeyed without hesitation—even though she was likely only around 14 years old. She made bold, wise decisions that no one could have expected from someone so young. I love how she seemed to carry light into every room, gain favor in difficult circumstances, and walk with quiet confidence.

And though God’s name is never mentioned once in the book of Esther, His presence is felt in every part of her story.

That’s why Esther’s story is so special to me. Whenever I’m struggling to do right or be right, I return to her story and find renewed perspective.

Starting my private practice was one of those “Esther moments.” I knew God had called me to it, but I didn’t (and still don’t) fully know what it will become. Sometimes I find myself looking around at what others are doing, thinking I need to follow their example. But I’m learning that while their path may be good and God-ordained, it doesn’t mean it’s mine.

In Jeremiah 6:16, God says:

“Stand by the roads, and look, and ask for the ancient paths, where the good way is; and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.”

And in Isaiah 26:3, we’re reminded that,

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.”

Then Psalm 23:1 whispers,

“The Lord is my Shepherd; I lack nothing.”

These verses anchor me when I start to drift off the path God has for me. They remind me that sometimes, “no” or “not yet” is just as divine as “yes.”

How I Know I’m Not on the Right Path

1. I feel urgency – a frantic need to “figure it out now!”

2. I compare – “She’s got it all together; what’s wrong with me?”

3. I compete – “I need to do more, be more, look like I’ve got it together.”

4. I feel old or behind – “I should have done this years ago.”

5. I feel heavy – like I’m carrying the world on my shoulders and just want to shut down.

   
   

How I Know I’m on the Path God Designed for Me

1. There’s peace – a deep, steady peace that doesn’t make sense but feels like home.

   

2. There’s stillness – I recognize the rush and choose to pause; somehow, everything gets done anyway.

   

3. There’s perspective – I remember we’re all masterpieces, not competitors.

   

4. There’s joy – I sense God smiling, whispering, “This will be fun.”

   

5. There’s affirmation – I’m reminded I am seen and loved: “She is delightfully chaotic; a beautiful mess. Loving her is a splendid adventure.”

   

When I rest in that truth, I can breathe again. I can walk my path with confidence, knowing that just like Esther, I’m right where I’m meant to be—for such a time as this.